Disco Broadway Jazz Blues Pop - Pamala Stanley - Blog http://pamalastanley.com/blog.html Pamala Stanley: Blog Jannis' PHPRss class - http://www.jannis.to/ Tue, 23 Feb 2010 06:03:46 -0800 Pamala's Blog http://pamalastanley.com/blog.html/pamalas_blog Well I am finally blogging....I have wanted to do this for awhile...but always put it off....What a great year I had last year and this one has started out busy thank God...I am so happy people still want to see me sing...I am off cruises for awhile and heading for Tallahassee for 2 months....I have a new baby in my life...Johnny surprised me with a Bichon Frise puppy on Valentine's day...I named her Allegra (I call her Allie for short).. Her name means Happy all the time ..never sad. I am so in love but boy is it work....we got our coyote as a puppy but she lived outside so this is, may I say a challenge....She is almost trained...she will sill have an accident now and then but she only weighs 3 pounds...so i just have to stay on top of it....Anybody have help and training ideas let me know..I bathed her for the first time yesterday I have had her 10 days...she needed it. How often can you bathe a puppy...I sent away for a Bichon book....just got it yesterday so YEAH!! I can't believe how inadequate I feel...I raised a child how hard can this be?....


Now onto Farmville...I stayed away from that like the plague but then my sweet nephew Matthew asked if I would join so naturally I did...NOW I AM FRIGGIN ADDICtED....so I spend way too much time on it but man is it fun....So I get a post from my friend Brian in Missouri telling me there are You Tube videos telling you how to shortcut your way to the mansion(in other words cheat) So I go to You Tube and I am amazed how many videos there are to get out of doing the work to build your farm....People this is a game...the joy is in the journey...Why do you want to shortcut your way...what fun is that? Can we not see what is happening to our world?...Nobody wants to do the work anymore...they just want the FARM now!


It makes me sad to see that people are missing the whole point here....Do you not get that life is a Game, a journey....WE ARE GONNA DIE SOMEDAY ANYWAY!!! Please see the journey not the work of getting somewhere....Just like in Farmville...you plant the crops and wait for them to bloom...not plant, delete, add the XP and move on...what is the joy in that?  the fun is seeing fruition after planting, nurturing and waiting....I remember starting out in the music business...I have seen me grow as an entertainer, musician and singer...It is thrilling to know every year I will be better than last year....And let me tell you I have had some set backs in my life...still the joy is in the Game of Life!!!! No matter what the situation...


I truly believe that is why we are seeing so much suicide in people today...My heart is aching for the friends, family and other people who have committed suicide. The pressure put on everyone today is all about GETTING IT NOW!!!  or cheating someone out of something they deserve...like my poor friend Debra...they wanted her out of the school system because she was 2 years from retiring ...so they leaned on her so so hard ..the pressure was overwhelming....she couldn't take it and took her own life...How did she get to the point to allow the school system to make her life so difficult, that she felt the only way out was suicide? And she is married to a wealthy man...She didn't even need the money!


People 2 things....stop cheating your way to the mansion...take the ride...and if someone is applying that much pressure..either walk away and find something else to do or, get legal or counseling advice right away....and enjoy the fight for your rights .....Don't forget it really doesn't nmatter in the end...It was just a journey.....We miss you Debra

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